Finding Balance On and Off the Yoga Mat

May 29, 2008
This is an article about one of my yoga instructors.  I relate to it because I am realizing that yoga is so much more than asana’s..  Its a wonderful journey!

Elka’s Story

Yoga is an ancient practice that creates a sense of unity between the mind, body and spirit. It brings balance that we can take to other parts of our daily lives. Recognizing the distinct connection of the mind, body and spirit is the first step in yoga. It’s the philosophy.

Elka Hauck is the owner of Namaste Yoga Center in San Diego. But she wasn’t born a yoga guru. “I used to be a ‘gym girl.’ I would push my body when working out and had no recognition that the mind and body were even connected. I never cared what I put into my body, nor did I properly take care of myself,” she said. “I didn’t eat right, was always stressed out and had loads of anxiety.”

Seven years ago she took her first power yoga class. “I started with power yoga because it grabbed my attention. I wasn’t interested in the spiritual elements of yoga,” said Elka. “I wanted a tough workout and a good stretch.”

Power yoga gave her just that — and much more. She began attending class regularly and soon realized that the benefits of yoga went well beyond its physical advantages.

“It made me a better person and brought me perception in life,” she said. “When I started practicing yoga, I started thinking before acting. I started living in the present moment, instead of worrying about the past and the future.”

“Yoga brings the awareness that the present is the most important thing to appreciate and recognize,” said Elka. “Too often we look outside ourselves for peace and happiness. But it is present within us — we just need to learn to live in the present.”

Dancer PoseAs her time in the studio increased, she decided to train to be a teacher. After rigorous practice, she got her license and students followed her around town. “I started teaching yoga outside on the bay,” Elka said. “When summer was over and the temperatures began to drop, my students begged me to find a place to teach indoors. Three months later, Namaste Yoga Center opened.”

As yoga became a huge part of Elka’s life, she began studying other forms of holistic healing to complement her practice. She will graduate this year from the International Professional School of Body Work, where she will receive her license to practice massage and various forms of energy healing, including reiki, a non-invasive form of Japanese energy healing.

Elka enjoys how these practices complement one another. “Massage and energy work bring me more connected to a person. I facilitate healing through touching the body and releasing energy. It’s really connected to yoga.”

What Do You Have to Lose?

Yoga offers a myriad of physical, psychological and spiritual benefits. Besides the inherent physical benefits that yoga creates — overall strength and flexibility — yoga also improves sleep quality, alleviates pain, prevents injury and balances metabolism. Yoga also trains us how to quiet the mind, create positive energy, relieve stress, eliminate depression and develop awareness of ourselves and the world around us.

“Yoga is overflowing with rewards. It opens our minds. It teaches us how to better deal with ourselves and others,” said Elka.

“More than any other reason, students tell me that yoga helps them deal with stress.” she said. “This ultra-fast pace world offers so much stress — yoga brings people the calmness they need. Even those people that only come to work out recognize they are now able to cope with their emotions better and handle stress.”

You can practice yoga everywhere, not just in a class. This is especially true of breathing. Learning to breathe properly is an important tool. Once you learn to breathe when faced with anxiety, depression or a stressful situation, you learn how much it can calm you down.

“Giving yourself a moment just for yourself — just to focus on your own being — helps us solve internal struggles,” Elka said. And it doesn’t take long to learn. “Start with meditating just 10 seconds a day. Keep yourself in the present for just those 10 seconds. Little by little, increase your meditation by 10 seconds a day. That’s all it takes.”

She read a passage by Thynn Thynn from her book of inspirational quotes that she often reads from at the end of her classes. “Why do we think we have no peace of mind? Experiencing peace is like looking at our hands. Usually, we see only the fingers — not the spaces in between. In a similar manner, when we look at the mind, we are aware of the active states, such as our running thoughts and the 1,001 feelings that are associated with them, but we tend to overlook the intervals of peace between them.”

“We all need to look at that space — in life — look at the missed perceptions. Be conscious of what we do everywhere…on and off the yoga mat,” Elka explained.

“The world we live in today is challenging. There will always be struggle,” she continued. “Our purpose is to find peace amongst the struggle. Yoga can help us reach this goal.”

As her voice trailed off, students came in and began setting up their mats and towels. Elka welcomed each student with a hug, a smile and some positive energy.

Difference between east and west

May 28, 2008

When it comes to healing here are some differences:

East– Focus on the emptiness, feel dissatisfaction and imperfection, go deeper into the painful places.

West– Heal and feill the emptiness, develop character, strengthen the ego…

What do you think?

Yoga and Mental Health

May 28, 2008

Yoga is a four-thousand-year-old psychology developed in India.  It is the oldest system of personal development in the world.  Yoga is an effective, natural remedy for mental health issues. 

Through a combination of simple breathing techniques, postures, movements and deep relaxation, you can help your patients become calmer and more centered.  Basic mindfulness helps cultivate strong minds that live in the moment and tolerate difficult emotions.  Understanding how to work with our energy flows allow us to heal disturbances within.

Recent research indicates that thought can actually occur in the body, and molecules of emotions can be stored away in the form of peptides.  Yoga has the ability to affect the quantity and quality of the peptide production in the body through the stimulation of physical movement.  More than eleven million Americans are currently practicing yoga on a regular basis.  Yoga is steadily gaining popularity in the west as a holistic healing modality.  The practice of yoga and mindfulness helps reconnect individuals to the natural world through awareness, organic movement and sound…. OM.

According to Dr. Herbert Benson, MD, and his colleagues, their extensive research indicates that mind/body medicine is so effective, that it is becoming the third healing modality in healthcare, taking the place of surgery and pharmaceuticals. 

Empower your clients to believe that they have the capacity to influence what is happening inside of them.  Learn to create a simple, effective plan to treat the whole person-mind, body and spirit. 

Yonna Swingholm– “Treating the Whole Person- Practical Yoga and Mindfulness for Clinicians”

One little word…

May 18, 2008

How is it that one little word can produce so much anxiety, excitement, joy, sadness, peace, and hatred.  For the past few weeks, I have been thinking of this word, more specifically this one sentence, roughly 75% of the time.  It plays out in my head over and over and I almost feel like I say it out loud, one time I think I did say it to him but it could have just been a dream… This sentence has never given me so much anxiety in the past.  I think that yoga is to blame…
If any of you have just started a training course or begun to deepen your yoga off the matt then maybe you can relate.  Now that I look at the world through energetic  or “yogic” lenses ways I feel much more in tune with my dharma.  Before I might have felt the need to say “it” to realize anxiety.  I think I thought that it would make everything perfect or make some of the “not so perfect” better.  Because when you have this…. then life is perfect…  Right?  So connecting with my dharmic path has allowed me to realize and let go of some of the anxiety and just be in the moment.  Trusting that each moment we are given is a time to make choices and that if we connect with that sensation of making a choices that is so pure and true then we made the choices that is right for our dharmic path.  So how does this relate to my hesitation?

All I know is that I feel this overwhelming desire to say “it” but in the moment, my teeth clench up and  I  hesitate.  I’m scared.  Ahh but I am who I am and I feel how I feel so just because I have said it before shouldn’t mean that I should hesitate now.  Nor does it mean that I don’t truly feel it.  I do love him..  And when he left today I felt this crazy desire to tell him because I wanted him to know.  I wanted him to hear it and know that I felt that way about him.  But I didn’t.  And truth be told, I actually think that I wasn’t following my dharma but listening to my fears instead.  Its my heart that can only say and mean these words and if my head won’t let my heart speak then the words won’t be uttered.  But I will say this… he makes my whole body tingle and when he is around I feel fluttery.  Like butterflies are on my chest and tickling my insides.  When he turns away from me to sleep at night, I stare at his back and lightly brush my nose on the nap of his neck.  I love that place.  I just want to throw my arms around him and squeeze him till he pops!  Sometimes I go into spontaneous laughter because of how happy I am and how awesome it feels to be in this relationship.  I giggle like a 7 year old girl sometimes.  Its great.. It brings my inner child a lot of happiness.  Actually, I have a slight urge to go into laughter at this moment… He is what makes me smile and I do see a future with him.

Spanish

May 14, 2008

This spanish class has really brought up a lot of insecurities for me. I was NOT good in academics. In my elementary and high schools there were three tracks. Honors, average, slower, then special people. I had a hard time learning concepts at the same speed as everyone else so I was put in the slower track. But my mom never let me think that I wasn’t capable!

My mom wanted the best for me and wanted me to be well educated because that is what Papou taught her and valued. I’m sure that my mom pulled strings (I joke that she slept with someone) to get me into University of Illinois. It wasn’t because I had the grades. Once in, I did ok…. mainly because I found what I was good at. I can read people and create a space where people feel comfortable and trust me. I sometimes feel like what I do wasn’t something I chose but something that happened to me.

But here I am wanting to improve myself and being very drawn to learning spanish… but I struggle with it.  It brings back all those insecurities of not being as smart as everyone else… Something has to come from the process and maybe that something is patience with myself? hmmm. Accepting that it does take me more time than others and accepting that and STUDYING more. Sometimes I think that I’ll never get it… but nothing that I have put on my “To Accomplish List” has just fallen off or not been accomplished.

A mixture of whats to come and what is..

May 14, 2008

I think that there are some people that you meet and you feel a very strong connection to and then there are those people that happen to be in your life (like family) and they are there for a reason. But sometimes those reasons are hard to know. There are people, like my sister, whom I have this deeper connection to than anyone else in my life. And its more than a sister connection!

I think that my sister is a strong part of my dharma.  The minute that she was in my life I felt a connection that was strong.  Its not just a sister connection either.  Maybe it means, and I hope, that she will be a constant thread throughout my life.

Sebastien came into my life when I was heavily focused on myself. Probably more than I have ever been before. I had just committed to brining those things into my life that I wanted and that were good for me. I have to say that I worked really hard to get there and I know that I want to continue connecting to those things…

But there was something missing. It wasn’t complete. I wanted to find someone that I could share my passions and experiences with.   A year ago, I was in no shape for attracting the right person. I attracted people where couldn’t see pass their own stuff. I think it was because I had never really dealt with the fact that my dad left me. So I kept replaying the loss (by picking guys who were only able to care about themselves) hoping that somehow I could change it. Like if I was fun enough, or athletic enough, or if I was just born a boy maybe dad wouldn’t have left. But luckily I have done enough work to realize that dad leaving wasn’t my fault and even if I was the prince of France.. he still would of left. (Yes I do know that there is not a prince of France.) But I also know that I haven’t done all the work. I haven’t accepted all the stuff that has happened along the way. Soo I am cautious about how that effects my world and especially in my attractions to others. But I feel that I am not going backwards and that I am making the steps (however slow and small) forward.

I feel fortunate enough to feel a strong connection to my dharma. Even when it would have been easier to just fall into the trap of what society believes is “right” or what our/my family believes is “right” I never did it for very long. I was to drawn to my dharma…

I know that the minute that I meet Sebastien and felt his presence I wanted to get to know him more and learn as much as I could about him.   I felt very comfortable around him.  We use to (not like it has been that long ago) walking down the beach together and talking for hours.  I really enjoyed it because I think it was the first time that I exposed a more connected me.  And I’m so excited that in doing so I have attracted Sebastien more and more.  Its like getting rewarded for doing something right…  Which is not a reinforcement I have been open to in the past.  It makes me very happy and excited about whats to come.

I still have a lot of healing and accepting left to do. But I know that and I will do it… because its on my “List of things to accomplish”…he he.

Dharma returns

May 14, 2008

So I am taking a children’s yoga certification class through yoga well/progressive therapies and this weeks homework was to find a children’s nursery rhyme and make it fit for children in a yoga class.  In the last class we had to list three songs we remembered from our youth.  I spoke about a time when I was playing the our backyard and began singing “ring a-round the Rosy.”  Then I heard other children singing it and thought to myself… “I started a new song and everyone knows it.”  I truly thought that I had made up “ring a round the rosy.” 

So today I was looking for nursery rhymes online to complete my homework assignment.  When I stumbled on this article from www.hinduwebsite.com/hinduisn/essays/rosy.asp by Richard Stoney.

Basically is said that the nursery rhyme “Rina a-round the Rosy” owes its existence to the mythology of  Shiva (god of Destruction).  In a story about Shiva’s role as Natara’ja (Dance King” and Kapa’lin “adorned with Skulls” that he uses his Dance to re-energize life and the cosmos.  And it said… “It is in both roles that he represents the inseparability between life and death, and therefore, reincarnation.”….   

Did I make up ”ring a-round the ” in some other life?  It feels like the truth.  More and more I sense that things are lining up in my life.  

Like yesterday.. I finally got to the gym and got myself on my favorite elliptical (because there is a tv with it) and started flipping through the stations.  I love options!  So Opra was on and I caught the section of a person under hypnosis and recalling a past life experience.  This man, in his past life, had watched a woman get rapped and then was killed by someone who caught him.  Under hypnosis he made the connection that the woman (whom he didn’t know during that life) was actually his sister in his life now.  It was very moving and though they didn’t discuss dharma— it was obvious that this man was fullfilling his destiny.   I sometimes wonder how people’s priorities would change if we all subscribed to the idea of reincarnation.    

 

How your yoga practice can let you know how healthy your relationships are…

May 07, 2008

So yesterday I went over to my boyfriend’s casa and practiced yoga for 60 min. In the past, I have done yoga around previous significant others but last night was different. I realized how much progress I have made because of the difference I feel in this relationship. In the past, I have needed the OK from others to do what I wanted to do. Or I would not do what I wanted to do because I was too wrapped up in their needs. Part of me seeks out energy and approval from others…. Who doesn’t like getting the, “Oh you are so good at that!” or “It makes me so happy when you…” But yesterday was different. I stayed completely centered and focused on me. From my first tadasana to my final savasana I remained centered. I actually took savasana for longer than I have in the past while my boyfriend was sitting doing his work in the same room.

Now I could say that it has been my yoga practice that allowed me to become more comfortable being able to stay within myself or it is because I am with someone who appreciates me and supports me in doing things that make me happy. But I think that it was when both of these relationships came together I realized how much yoga affected my energy. If it wasn’t for yoga I don’t think I would have been ready to meet Mr. Page. I also feel that as much as yoga has influenced my well being, making me open to the right person, I think that the right person has influenced my yoga by taking away some of the some of the fear and making it safe to go deeper.

My dharma would give me a clue about what “this” but I never would have thought that the real thing would be so magical, peaceful, and beautiful as what is truly unfolding.

Mental Health Therapy and Yoga

May 05, 2008

When one practice comes together with another we get a mixture

When should you start teaching your child yoga?

May 05, 2008

About 5 years before you give birth.